{"id":125,"date":"2021-07-13T01:53:53","date_gmt":"2021-07-13T01:53:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tuyetky.com\/79\/?p=125"},"modified":"2023-06-04T15:57:02","modified_gmt":"2023-06-04T15:57:02","slug":"phan-khang-tam-ly-tai-sao-ban-cam-thay-kho-chiu-khi-bi-nguoi-khac-keu-lam-viec-minh-dinh-lam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tuyetky.com\/79\/2021\/07\/13\/phan-khang-tam-ly-tai-sao-ban-cam-thay-kho-chiu-khi-bi-nguoi-khac-keu-lam-viec-minh-dinh-lam\/","title":{"rendered":"Ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd: t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu khi b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c k\u00eau l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0m?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n ai trong ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u00edt nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng: khi \u0111ang t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0, th\u00ec l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf c\u1ee7a nh\u1ecb v\u1ecb ph\u1ee5 huynh vang l\u00ean ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0. . . d\u1ed7i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa! \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng (reactance) – m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec7u \u1ee9ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t t\u00ean b\u1edfi nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc Jack Brehm v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1966. N\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng (reactance) l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu\/\u1ee9c ch\u1ebf khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111e d\u1ecda \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. Nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 tr\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c quy \u0111\u1ecbnh, \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb, c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, quy t\u1eafc, y\u00eau c\u1ea7u\u2026\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 g\u00ec?
\u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m tin “m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t” r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do trong vi\u1ec7c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac ni\u1ec1m tin n\u00e0y b\u1ecb lung lay b\u1edfi nhi\u1ec1u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n kh\u00e1c nhau, b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 kh\u00e1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Khi \u1ea5y, ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu do ch\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eb1m gi\u00e0nh l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do m\u00e0 h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 \u0111ang b\u1ecb \u0111e d\u1ecda. Quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n \u0111i d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang ta coi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng do ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u1ef1 do quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, t\u1ef1 do l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfm th\u1ebf ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 huynh khi\u1ebfn ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 b\u1ecb “h\u1eabng tay tr\u00ean”, \u0111e d\u1ecda m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 trong quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh! Sau \u0111\u00f3, ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ch\u00e1n gh\u00e9t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0m. V\u1eacY, L\u00c0M C\u00c1CH N\u00c0O \u0110\u1ec2 “L\u1ee2I D\u1ee4NG” \u0110\u1ed8NG C\u01a0 PH\u1ea2N KH\u00c1NG N\u00c0Y?
\u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ngh\u1ecbch \u0111\u1ea3o t\u00e2m l\u00fd (reverse psychology). \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m theo \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch g\u1ee3i \u00fd\/thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n v\u00e0 thao t\u00fang h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c! B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd tin r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh; r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd l\u00e0m v\u1eady b\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n v\u1eady, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 do b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c sai b\u1ea3o l\u00e0m v\u1eady. Nh\u01b0ng tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111ang b\u1ecb thao t\u00fang b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb thao t\u00fang th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111ang th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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