{"id":788,"date":"2023-01-28T15:19:45","date_gmt":"2023-01-28T15:19:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tuyetky.com\/79\/?p=788"},"modified":"2023-05-13T07:08:01","modified_gmt":"2023-05-13T07:08:01","slug":"tien-si-tu-stanford-danh-20-nam-nghien-cuu-de-tiet-lo-3-hanh-dong-nho-nay-khien-ban-tro-thanh-nam-cham-thu-hut-su-may-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tuyetky.com\/79\/2023\/01\/28\/tien-si-tu-stanford-danh-20-nam-nghien-cuu-de-tiet-lo-3-hanh-dong-nho-nay-khien-ban-tro-thanh-nam-cham-thu-hut-su-may-man\/","title":{"rendered":"Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 t\u1eeb Stanford d\u00e0nh 20 n\u0103m nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9: 3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ecf n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ‘nam ch\u00e2m thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 may m\u1eafn’"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf may m\u1eafn l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra. V\u1ecb ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 n\u00e0y d\u00e0nh 20 n\u0103m nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u00e0 quan s\u00e1t \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh “nam ch\u00e2m thu h\u00fat may m\u1eafn”.
Trong su\u1ed1t 20 n\u0103m quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi may m\u1eafn h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Tina Seelig c\u1ee7a Stanford \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh: Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi may m\u1eafn nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o ra may m\u1eafn cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.
Trong m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i TED Salon, Seelig \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a may m\u1eafn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1n gi\u00f3 nh\u1eb9. \u0110\u00f4i khi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1n b\u00e3o. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft khi n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ebfn ho\u1eb7c t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0o.
L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 Tina Seelig l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1nh bu\u1ed3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o ra may m\u1eafn cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n c\u00e1c sinh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u1eb1m c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n x\u00e1c su\u1ea5t gi\u00fap h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p may m\u1eafn trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1nh bu\u1ed3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, Seelig g\u1ee3i \u00fd 3 c\u00e1ch sau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  1. Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1ee7i ro m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat r\u1ee7i ro (The little risks you can take to increase your luck)
    B\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1ee7i ro v\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc ra ngo\u00e0i v\u00f9ng an to\u00e0n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f4 lu\u00f4n khuy\u00ean sinh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng r\u1ee7i ro m\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n. C\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n chuy\u1ec3n t\u1eeb xe t\u1eadp \u0111i 4 b\u00e1nh sang xe 2 b\u00e1nh \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m. Ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t kh\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ch\u00fang m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u0103ng b\u1eb1ng. Song m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n th\u1eed v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng.
    Trong l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh Seelig lu\u00f4n y\u00eau c\u1ea7u sinh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 r\u1ee7i ro. C\u00f4 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c sinh vi\u00ean t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 th\u00edch nghi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1edbi c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i r\u1ee7i ro v\u1ec1 tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c, v\u1eadt l\u00fd, t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, \u0111a c\u1ea3m, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c.
    Sinh vi\u00ean s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i so s\u00e1nh v\u1ec1 r\u1ee7i ro m\u00e0 h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i trong t\u1eebng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, \u0111\u1ea9y m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng r\u1ee7i ro m\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1ea5t. M\u1ed9t khi b\u01b0\u1edbc qua gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 m\u1edf ra c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cho m\u00ecnh.
    V\u00ed d\u1ee5, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i v\u00e0 nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 th\u1eed th\u00e1ch b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng quen bi\u1ebft. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng r\u1ee7i ro n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o cho s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.
    Tina Seelig \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng mua s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch b\u1eaft chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 tr\u00ean m\u00e1y bay. C\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c may m\u1eafn – nh\u01b0ng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng “v\u00e0ng” n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111eo tai nghe nh\u1ea1c v\u00e0 l\u1edd \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh.<\/li>
  2. Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i
    Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, Seelig \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n.
    C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i th\u1eb3ng th\u1eebng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. D\u1eabu v\u1eady h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian suy ng\u1eabm v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 r\u00fat ra kinh nghi\u1ec7m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n c\u1ea3m \u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u00ecnh tr\u1ea3i qua th\u1eed th\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3.
    “Khi ai \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1ea1n cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t, h\u1ecd \u0111ang t\u1eb7ng th\u1eddi gian qu\u00fd b\u00e1u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, n\u00ean bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3”. Seelig n\u00f3i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfn l\u1edbn gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o ra may m\u1eafn cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y.
    Gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 Tina Seelig \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc b\u1ed5ng c\u1ea1nh tranh cao t\u1ea1i Stanford. Tina th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ghi ch\u00fa m\u00e0 sinh vi\u00ean d\u00e0nh cho m\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n ho\u1eb7c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u Tina ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 h\u1ecd may m\u1eafn h\u01a1n trong l\u1ea7n sau. C\u00f4 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi ghi ch\u00fa c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu sinh vi\u00ean t\u00ean Brian, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i h\u1ecdc b\u1ed5ng 2 l\u1ea7n. Sinh vi\u00ean n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft: “Em r\u1ea5t c\u00e1m \u01a1n gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 v\u00ec c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y. Em \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u1ed9p \u0111\u01a1n”. Sau khi \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea9u gi\u1ea5y nh\u1eafn, Tina \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi Brian. C\u1eadu sinh vi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tham gia v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i m\u00e0 Brian c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 nh\u1edd l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n d\u00f9 b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i h\u1ecdc b\u1ed5ng.<\/li>
  3. T\u00ecm \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ed1t t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7
    Trong c\u00e1i r\u1ee7i c\u00f3 c\u00e1i may. M\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 thi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n khi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u di\u1ec5n ra su\u00f4n s\u1ebb. Tina Seelig kh\u00f4ng tin \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. “Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi c\u1ee7a \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n khi ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1ng ch\u00fa \u00fd”, gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch sinh vi\u00ean nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n n\u00f3, cho d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i duy nh\u1ea5t.
    \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng ty th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la. Nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd v\u00e0 r\u1ee7i ro c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch bi\u1ebfn r\u1ee7i ro th\u00e0nh c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n mang l\u1ea1i l\u1ee3i \u00edch.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

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    B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xem clip b\u00e0i chia s\u1ebb c\u1ee7a Ti\u1ebfn s\u1ef9 Tina Seelig \u1edf ph\u1ea7n \u00fd ki\u1ebfn.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

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